Iwan Koenderman

Why Showing Up on socials Feels Akward

Two people in a store, one approaching the other cold — a metaphor for showing up on social media

And Why You Should Keep Posting — Even When No One Seems to Respond

Showing up on social media feels unnatural for many entrepreneurs and professionals. You know it matters — for your visibility, your brand, your network — and still, it feels off. You post something, get little response, and start wondering: “Is this even doing anything?”

The answer is: yes. But it helps to understand where the discomfort comes from — and why staying visible makes all the difference.

Being Visible on Social Media Feels Like Approaching a Stranger

Picture this: you walk into a store. You don’t work there — you’re representing an outside brand. And yet, you approach a random customer with a pitch. Cold. Uninvited.

Chances are, 90% of people will politely decline or walk away. Awkward, right?

But sometimes… someone does listen. And when you really tune in to what they need, that can lead to a meaningful conversation — maybe even a collaboration.

That’s Exactly How Social Media Visibility Works

Every post is like that moment in the store. You're sharing something without eye contact, without direct response. It can feel awkward — like you're talking into the void.

But that one moment when you do strike a chord? That’s what counts.

Because social media visibility isn’t about instant reactions. It’s about consistency. You’re building trust, familiarity, connection — sometimes quietly, sometimes invisibly. Until someone says: “Hey, I’ve been following you for a while — can you help me?”

Why You Should Keep Posting — Especially When It's Quiet

Ever wonder if it’s worth the effort? Don’t let yourself be discouraged by:

  • low reach

  • no likes

  • or the feeling you're shouting into the void

Because every post is a chance. A chance to:

  • be seen

  • create recognition

  • build trust

  • move someone to act

No visibility = no connection. No connection = no collaboration.

Struggling to Show Up on Social Media?

You’re not alone. Many entrepreneurs aren’t sure what to post or how to do it in a way that feels true to them.

That’s exactly where I can help. As a content strategist, I work with you to find a style of visibility that fits you — and truly resonates with others.

See how I work Or send me a message — let’s explore your content strategy together, no strings attached.

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July 24, 2025

Iwan Koenderman